什么?

我不怕什么.

《没有如果》

若如果拿来当借口 那是不是有一点弱
-梁静茹

爱我没有如果. 若最后还是变成如果, 我不弱, 不怕失去快乐, 不难过. 我不怕什么.

我会牵起自己的手, 不会一错再错过没有如果的人.

I say

IWON'TGIVEUP:-

WHATILOVE,

WHATIWANTTOACHIEVE,

WHATIWANT.

IWON'TGIVEINTO:-

WHATIHATE,

WHATIFEAR,

WHATSTOPSME.

Lol!

:D:D

" Don't worry. You guys still did a great job"

Rule No 1: Make sure your courage is paid off.

Check.

The power of 30 cent

Certainly it can not even get you a cup of hot white coffee at coffee shop. You need at least RM1.30 to enjoy one in Ipoh.

But, 30cents manage to travel warm greetings across the states.

I always write ' Thank you Postman' at the bottom of any informal envelope. We feel appreciated when someone acknowledges our small effort. Anyone can take up the role of that mysterious stranger :) Ho! Ho! Ho!

Pop-up!

No, it isn't difficult at all.

Drawing papers, scissor, glue, crayons and colour papers are digged out from dusty shelves again. I am having so much fun with various Pop-up Card's designs :)

For beginners, you do not need to be stucked with the limited designs in internet. You just need to learn to do layers pop-up and customize the card by designing various themes and glue them on the layers. I knew this method when I was a primary school kid. This method is the easiest way to achieve that 3D effect for cards. If you are interested, you can always look up for further tutorials for complicated paper cuttings.

simple structure

For me, I just need simple structure to expand ideas from there. It is the personal and customized details that matter:) You can change that christmas tree into your boyfriend's face, crazy cartoons and etc.

I tend to recycle unwanted resources to make crafts, trying to make use of what I would throw throw into dustbin. Paperbags from shopping centres are made of good material and classy choice of colours. I love to cut out and mixmatch the alphabets of any captions in fashion magazines. All these materials won't go far in making a good card but I never get myself to spend on these things at the same time. These are not necessities in my life.

:( Besides that, I have a long awaited list of items for me to spend on.

Check this link out for lovely papers! :D happy colours.

http://www.papertreyink.com/

Ah, this would be ideal for mother's card :)

Here

1. Angel
   
2. Castle

Haha

Say cheeeeeeeeeese!!! :D:D

All food no sweat makes me so fat.& I see food everywhere :(

ILOVEINDIANFOOD!!

Indian food?

Best-la!

Hymm.

" Well you see, nothing is permanent."

She said it with a smile on her face as she flipped through the newspaper. That was such a definite line. It came out almost a matter of fact arising out of her experience in the world and I took it more towards a negative perspective.

"Nothing."

She had to say it again to reassure everyone across the table before she slowly took a sip of her coffee. This was such a strong statement to be made in the middle of a light-hearted conversation and I knew she meant it. For that few minutes as they were laughing it off, I sat there thinking about it. How to believe in the vows of marriage when you are handling divorce cases almost everyday, when desperate fathers beg for their child custody and housewives come crying to you with land titles in their hand, trying to get a better secured maintenance for themselves?

Most of us are not good at adapting changes in life. Perhaps we can but we just refuse to do so. I guess we need to learn to be flexible enough to accustom in those situations. You know, that kind of skills where you are capable of being bent, without breaking yourself badly? That's the skill we should pick up along the way.

两种老公 两种人生

A:她：“老公。帮我接杯水呗。”
他：“石头剪子布。谁输了谁去。”
她：“算了。我自己去吧。”

B:他们坐在一起看韩剧。她起身。他问“干吗去？”
她：“去接杯水。”
他：“你坐这看吧。我去给你接。”

女人多可怜。她对男人唯一的要求就是“疼她”。你可以什么都没有。只要你疼她。她就有足够的勇气把自己的下半辈子交给你。
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

A:他晚上下班。给她打电话“宝贝儿。我晚上和朋友出去吃饭。”
她：“你不是答应我陪我逛街的吗？”
他：“改天吧！”
她默默地流泪。为什么每次都是这样？

B:他下班的时候打电话给她:“亲爱的。别人给我一张奥运会的票。巴西队啊！一会儿我去

看球了啊。”
她：“哦。这样啊。好吧。”
他：“怎么不高兴了？”
她：“你忘了。上周说好今天我朋友和她男朋友请我俩吃饭啊。”
他：“哎呀。对不起亲爱的。我忘记了。那我把票给别人吧。我陪你去吃饭。”
她：“不要了。吃饭可以改天。或者你先去看。我们等你。”
他：“那不行。答应你的事情必须得做到。再说你自己跟他俩在一起像电灯泡似的。你肯定不舒服啊”
她：“没事……”

没等她说完。他很强势的告诉她“好了。听我的。你收拾一下。我一会儿去接你。”
其实女人不是不懂事。只是。她需要碰上一个懂事的男人。其实。情侣之间。是可以互相的。

-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

A:他：“我晚上出去吃饭了啊。”
她：“几点回家？”
他：“九点之前肯定回家。”
九点半，她：“你怎么还不回来啊？”
他：“十点。肯定回家。”
十一点。十二点。一点。两点……
后来。她不再打电话催他。因为她知道。对于不守承诺的男人。一切“肯定”都是“未必”。

B:他：“我晚上出去吃饭。九点之前肯定结束。然后我俩去看电影。”
她：“你能那么快就结束吗？”
他：“放心吧。我答应你了就一定能！”
快到九点的时候。他：“收拾一下吧。我马上就到你家了”

信任。是在一件一件小事中建立起来的。
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

A:她生理期。身体不舒服。顶着疼痛洗衣服。收拾屋子。
他坐在电脑前面玩网络游戏。
她干完活。躺在床上。长出了一口气。
他看了她一眼：“宝贝儿。辛苦了！”然后转过头。继续玩他的游戏。

B:她生理期。很难受。起身准备洗衣服。
他拽住她：“你去床上躺着。我来！”
她：“你会做家务吗？你自己洗过衣服吗？”
他：“不会做可以学着做啊。以后你身体不舒服的时候。我当然得独挡一面！”

女人需要的不只是甜言蜜语。哄她几句。她也许会给你一个微笑。但是实实在在的呵护。她会对你一辈子的感恩。并且会回报给你一个温暖的家。
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
　
A:她给他拿了一包榛子。然后她去洗衣服。
回来的时候。榛子已经被他吃得所剩无几。

B:她拿给他一包榛子。然后自己去收拾屋子。
回来的时候。她看见电脑前面放了一堆剥好的榛子仁。

女人很感性。她炫耀你对她的体贴。就好像炫耀克拉钻一样。这么廉价的买卖。用一点心思就能收获无比的财富。
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
A:他说：“你是最好的。”
她问：“我哪好？”
他：“学历高。能力强。长得漂亮。对我又这么好。”
她笑了。

B:他：“你是我所遇到最好的女孩儿。”
她：“我哪好？”
他：“你对身边的每个人都很友善。很无私。对人对生活总是很感恩。一个人有一颗善良的心。会让周围的人感觉到温暖。你是我见过最善良的女孩儿。伤害你的人都应该下地 狱！”
她哭了。

一个人。是因为你对他好。所以觉得你好。
一个人。是因为懂得你的好。所以想要对你好。
幸福的恋人。首先应该是一对彼此欣赏的知己。
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------


retrieved from email

看生命 像陣風

跟命運在逆流 就算錯了 也不退后

神木與瞳 - 為你而活

Broken speech

7/17/09

Do not give anyone the authority to shut you up. If a person can't even give you a chance to express yourself, they are not worth to be heard too. It is mentally abusive to have your thought muted.

When someone is telling you that you are thinking too much and being a little too harsh on yourself, most likely they know the real facts and decide to hide a half of it from you. They will try to persuade you to give in and just accept everything which presents on the surface without peeling into the layers of truth.

How you wish you can just stop thinking, stop those curiosity dwelling into your daily life because it can be very tiring. It feels even worse when you are gifted with the natural ability to read minds and see through poker faces. Just like how you are dying to believe what they say but evidences are just there to prove otherwise.

" Hymm, maybe I am really wrong."

Just when you slowly believe the opposite, your intuition always turn out to be correct at the end. At the end of the day, it is always to your dismay. Isn't it the biggest betrayal from you to yourself for not trusting yourself? For undermining your ability to sense the wrong ? You are made to think that you are crazy when you are not! It is like forcing one person to a mental hospital and the majority keep chanting into his mind that " You are crazy. You need help" when you are the only normal one. After all those struggle and tears when you slowly accept the majority's view that you could be the crazy one, that's when you find out that, no, you have been a sane person all these while. You are not making up stories. You are not creating illusions out of nowhere. Their underlying intent to get into your mind is so bloody selfish. The fact that they manage to do it makes you want to cry.

So, don't let anyone make us feel as if we are the crazy one, making us self doubt and believe against our intuition. We may think too much but our thoughts always make so much sense in comparison to what they are trying to sabotage psychologically.

Rather, our judgments are always correct.

lovelove

Parents: Should we give away your baby brother?
Her: Well... we can just borrow them :(

Heart melts at 0.03sec, 0.10sec, 0.16sec, 0.19, 0.28sec, 0.34sec.
Ahhhh :)



Hahaha. The boy is trying to tell his father that his baby brother is bleeding and "Blood-duh" is not funny!
This is definitely my favourite video of the month:)




His justification at 0.27 sec is so adorable :D weeeeeeee!!
Kids don't lie.



:D:D:D!! My heart goes all out to these little ones.

One more year

Can you believe we have just one more year to go?
One more year of hanging out with the people that makes you who you are today.
One more year of renting cars in the middle of the night for a short getaway.
One more year of being there for each other, in moments of joy and tears.
One more year of doing anything and nothing except going for classes and studying.
One more year of finding who we are meant to be.
One more year of deciding who to become, what our purpose in life is.
One more year of ringing each other’s apartment doorbells just to bring a little sunshine.
One more year of ranting and laughing at the other girls who think they’re so cool
Just one more year to enjoy the beautiful, beautiful friendship woven among all of us.





Beautifully written by Dodomiao

Things to do in an elevator.

1) Bring a camera, and take pictures of everyone in the elevator.

2) Move your desk into the elevator, and whenever someone gets on, ask if they have an appointment.

3) Lay down a Twister mat and ask people if they’d like to play.

4) Leave a box in a corner, and when someone gets on, ask if they hear something ticking.

5) Pretend you are a flight attendant and review emergency procedures and exits with the passengers.

6) Ask, “did you feel that?”

7) Stand really close to someone, sniffing them occasionally.

8) When the doors close, announce to the others, “It’s okay, don’t panic. They’ll open up again.”

9) Swat at flies that don’t exist.

10) Tell people that you can see their aura.

11) Call out, “GROUP HUG!” and enforce it.

12) Grimace painfully while smacking your forehead and muttering, “Shut up. All of you. Just Shut up!!!”

13) Crack open your briefcase or purse and while peering inside, as “Got enough air in there?”

14) Stand silently and motionless in the corner, facing the wall, without getting off.

15) Stare at another passenger for awhile, then announce in horror, “You’re one of THEM,” and back away slowly.

16) Wear a puppet on your hand, and use it to talk to the other passengers.

17) Listen to the elevator walls with a stethoscope.

18) Make explosion noises when anyone presses a button.

19) Ask if you can push the button for other people, but push the wrong ones.

20) Stare grinning at another passenger for awhile, then announce “I have new socks on.”

21) Draw a little square on the floor with chalk, and announce to the other passengers, “This is MY personal space!!”

22) When there’s only one other person in the elevator, tap them on the shoulder and pretend it wasn’t you.

23) Push the buttons and pretend they give you a shock.

24) Call the Psychic Hotline from your cell phone, and ask if they know what floor you’re on.

25) Hold the doors open, and say that you’re waiting for your friend. After awhile, let the doors close and say, “Hi Greg, how’s your day been?”

26) Drop a pen, and wait until someone reaches to help pick it up, and then scream “That’s mine!”

Credit to LittleMiss


I miss doing really crazy, random and fearless things :D Hahaha. This list got me laughing so hard and I swear I am going to do it one by one when I am back to Ixora apartment in Malacca. & I will make my girlfriends watch me doing it! Their freak out expressions? Priceless :)

Good days aren't forever but bad days don't stay forever too :) & that's a good news in which we shouldn't take it for granted.

Get it right across.

It's okay if they do not agree with you. At least, they are still listening.

Adult's words

Oh no, no. I am not sensitive.

Your flawed arguments are just blatantly obvious. :)

Wise and experienced

Days in courts: I shook hands with people in black and white. Their firm grips told me stories about them. The possessing determination. The unyielding pressure.